How to Write A Eulogy: by Ben Gibson
A eulogy is a speech typically given at funerals. The need to write and deliver a eulogy offers a challenge to any writer. It is hard for anyone to be prepared to write a eulogy when emotionally tough time occurs. Eulogies offer different challenges that other pieces of literature do not. These occur at tragic times in peoples’ life when the death of a loved one occurs. The reasons eulogies can be overwhelming is the emotional tie that comes with them. The eulogy is to be presented to friends and family of a person who has deceased. Not only is the friends and family grieving, but the writer more than likely has an emotional stake in the situation as well, making it especially difficult to produce. Though difficult, an effective eulogy can be written by simply following a few essential steps. Though the steps can be altered to better meet ones emotions, these seem to be the basis of most eulogies.
1. The first and foremost thing essential to write an effective eulogy, is to get your own emotions in check. The loss of a loved one is very hard and upsetting, but if you are the individual delivering the eulogy, you have to channel you emotions to effectively honor the loved one who has passed, and make the most memorable and uplifting presentation to those who are in the grieving process.
2. After preparing yourself emotionally you must decide what you want include in your eulogy. Brainstorming all the good times you shared with an individual is a good start. In the eulogy it is important to state who you are and your relationship with the deceased. This helps the audience relate to what you have to say and believe you can fully honor the individual. For example, a grieving family does not want to think an individual who barely knows their loved one is attempting to honor them. After relating yourself to the individual, share good times, funny stories, etc. See the examples below.
3. Though it can present a challenge, summarizing the deceased individuals’ life is common. Share with the audience how you believe they made an impact on every ones’ life. Sharing a slideshow of photos, or the persons’ favorite song, quote, or Bible verse, is appropriate. Once again, see the examples below.
4. A very important part of a eulogy is including those who are left behind. Though it might sound selfish, the simple statement of the immediate family members who are survived by the deceased individual, can play a very big emotional part on the healing of the grieving family. Think of what the person who has passed away would want said.
5. The last part that every eulogy should include is a memorable final statement. You should make it your mission to end with a very uplifting and inspirational message. You are in a position to help the audience cope with the situation better and raise their spirits.
TIPS:
Ø Only include positive remarks, never make negative statements about the deceased individual.
Ø Do not be nervous. You will be fine. Main thing in writing a eulogy is to follow your heart. This is simply a guideline to help you get started.
Ø Make sure the emphasis is on the deceased individual, and not more on you. Though you are grieving, this is not your moment to vent. This is instead your moment to honor your loved one who has passed.
Ø Try your best to remain emotionally stable. This helps other remain strong.
Ø Speak clearly and speak from the heart.
Examples:
Ø http://www.eulogyspeech.net/
Ø http://hubpages.com/hub/Written-Examples-of-a-Eulogy
Ø http://www.eulogybook.net/sample_eulogy.html
1. The first and foremost thing essential to write an effective eulogy, is to get your own emotions in check. The loss of a loved one is very hard and upsetting, but if you are the individual delivering the eulogy, you have to channel you emotions to effectively honor the loved one who has passed, and make the most memorable and uplifting presentation to those who are in the grieving process.
2. After preparing yourself emotionally you must decide what you want include in your eulogy. Brainstorming all the good times you shared with an individual is a good start. In the eulogy it is important to state who you are and your relationship with the deceased. This helps the audience relate to what you have to say and believe you can fully honor the individual. For example, a grieving family does not want to think an individual who barely knows their loved one is attempting to honor them. After relating yourself to the individual, share good times, funny stories, etc. See the examples below.
3. Though it can present a challenge, summarizing the deceased individuals’ life is common. Share with the audience how you believe they made an impact on every ones’ life. Sharing a slideshow of photos, or the persons’ favorite song, quote, or Bible verse, is appropriate. Once again, see the examples below.
4. A very important part of a eulogy is including those who are left behind. Though it might sound selfish, the simple statement of the immediate family members who are survived by the deceased individual, can play a very big emotional part on the healing of the grieving family. Think of what the person who has passed away would want said.
5. The last part that every eulogy should include is a memorable final statement. You should make it your mission to end with a very uplifting and inspirational message. You are in a position to help the audience cope with the situation better and raise their spirits.
TIPS:
Ø Only include positive remarks, never make negative statements about the deceased individual.
Ø Do not be nervous. You will be fine. Main thing in writing a eulogy is to follow your heart. This is simply a guideline to help you get started.
Ø Make sure the emphasis is on the deceased individual, and not more on you. Though you are grieving, this is not your moment to vent. This is instead your moment to honor your loved one who has passed.
Ø Try your best to remain emotionally stable. This helps other remain strong.
Ø Speak clearly and speak from the heart.
Examples:
Ø http://www.eulogyspeech.net/
Ø http://hubpages.com/hub/Written-Examples-of-a-Eulogy
Ø http://www.eulogybook.net/sample_eulogy.html
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